
Make Up Your Minds!
Reformed Church in America pastor Kevin DeYoung, a solid and thoughtful evangelical, recognizes the reality that so many in the mainline churches do not want to come to grips with: the status quo on homosexuality is not sustainable. It is time to make a decision, and let the chips fall where they may. He writes at the Gospel Coalition:
There is no way, short of a miraculous and full-scale changing of hearts and minds, for North American denominations to survive the homosexuality crisis. Denominations like the PCUSA, ELCA, RCA, UMC, and Episcopal Church will continue. They won’t fold their tents and join the Southern Baptists (though wouldn’t that be interesting!). I’m not suggesting most of our old, mainline denominations will disappear. But I do not see how any of these once flourishing denominations will make it through the present crisis intact.
And the sooner denominations admit this sobering reality the better.
He describes the various options being pursued by liberals, conservatives, and moderates (or middle-of-the-roaders, or compromisers, denominational institutionalists, whatever), and concludes:
I understand that many good Christians love their denominations deeply. I love mine too. I don’t want to see the RCA crash and burn, or fall apart. I recognize that many Christians are loathe to consider any option that involves anything less than staying together no matter what. They want to hope against hope that everything will work out and there will be some way for everyone to get along. But it is no virtue of Christian hope to trust God for contradictions. He cannot make circles to simultaneously be squares. We are not losing confidence in our almighty God if we admit that many of our denominations face intractable problems. We can’t “unify” our way out of this mess or press people to stop having mutually exclusive convictions for the sake of our institutions, pensions, or pride. The fact is there is no third way, no fourth way, no tenth way out of this controversy that leaves all the pieces in the same places they are now. Groups will split. Bodies will rearrange. Parts will realign. Maybe not this year. Maybe not on your watch. But soon enough.
So my plea is for these denominations to make a definitive stand. Make it right, left, or center, but make one and make it clearly. Insist that member churches and pastors hold to this position. And then graciously open a big door for any pastor or church who cannot live in this theological space to exit with their dignity, their time, and their property. Because sometimes the best way to preserve unity is to admit that we don’t have it.
Read it all for the details. I think DeYoung is spot on: denominations need to decide, and then act in a gracious and loving fashion toward those who disagree, particularly if they decide to leave. The current reality, in which the mainlines are in the process of destroying any witness they might have left with never-ending infighting and court battles over property, can only result in their ultimate demise.
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Good luck on that leaving-with-your-property plea. Katharine Schori isn’t the only power-hungry, money-grubbing apostate in charge of a major denomination.
[1] Posted by Greg Griffith on 7-16-2012 at 04:05 PM · [top]
Amen to that #1.
[2] Posted by B. Hunter on 7-16-2012 at 04:30 PM · [top]
Agree with 1 and 2. Somehow I don’t see TEC/815/+KJS or DBB implementing that sort of gracious leave-with-your-property policy anytime soon.
I still think the best possibility for TEC would be to honestly realize that what we all really know and that is- every bishop does what they think is best for their diocese (we can hope). So admit that reality and just dissolve the union of dioceses known as TEC. Simple. The dioceses that are left can either come together and form another union or do whatever their people decide to do as individual convention.
My grandmother always said Episcopalians are really congregationalist at heart!! Many just don’t care what happens outside their parish.
[3] Posted by SC blu cat lady on 7-16-2012 at 04:47 PM · [top]
There is a reason why Greg is right in #1. The reason is that if the mainline denominations make their “bold stance” and then keep the door graciously open, they fear that a large number of people would leave. And that would undermine the liberal agenda. I think that deep down liberals know that they only have the power of destruction and that they need to leech on to a living organism in order to survive. If they let the living organism escape, they have no ability to survive.
[4] Posted by jamesw on 7-16-2012 at 05:04 PM · [top]
I have never considered the RCA to be a mainline denomination.
If every RCA parish closed up this week, no one would notice.
Oh, wait.
[5] Posted by James Manley on 7-16-2012 at 05:18 PM · [top]
James, RCA is mainline by virtue of its membership in the National and World Councils of Churches. It is in general more conservative than other mainline denominations, but has had to deal with the homosexual issue nonetheless.
I’m sure DeYoung recognizes that it’s unlikely that in the denominations that have made the most vicious efforts to take property aren’t going to stop. He’s simply saying what should happen, not what will happen. It is possible, however, that if smaller mainline denominations (the RCA, say, or the Cumberland Presbyterian) will learn from TEC and PCUSA, and if they start seeing defections, will recognize that taking the go-to-court route will only lead to even greater defections, and poison their wells beyond all possible recovery.
[6] Posted by David Fischler on 7-16-2012 at 05:31 PM · [top]
There is an implicit tolerance in DeYoung’s proposal that is anaethema to the liberals. They are convinced that non-liberals are evil (they have been taught this ad-nauseum) and thus are convinced we must not be offered any succour. They don’t see “Bodies will rearrange. Parts will realign.” as a good thing, but rather as a failure on their part to destroy the conservative church.
[7] Posted by Michael D on 7-16-2012 at 06:29 PM · [top]
Jamesw in #4 is spot-on. DeYoung doesn’t realize it, but these denominations **have** made up their minds, it’s just that they know their frog boiling.
[8] Posted by Jeffersonian on 7-16-2012 at 07:20 PM · [top]
Clarity is too honest a thing for most lefties. Of course it’s about either voluntarily deceiving folks who would flee if they were totally honest about the end-game, or they think it’s possible to “educate” folks to come around to their post-modern schlock if they lead the poor dears slowly enough that they don’t scare off.
[9] Posted by Bill2 on 7-16-2012 at 07:49 PM · [top]
In my pre-ACNA mainline church, I remember the run-up to our Biennial Convention, and the knowledge that there was going to be a vote on homosexuality.
A group of pastors brought in some newsletter by the gay lobby for the gay lobby, nationally, and it included a strategy on mainline denominations. It specifically urged that homosexuals use the political structures of each denomination to push votes enacting the gay agenda, or to split or destroy the denomination politically if it failed to endorse their platform. They then went beyond the idea of simple votes, but talked about how it was a win if the vote didn’t outright condemn homosexuality, even if it only said “we’ll pray over and discuss the matter”, since the camel’s nose was under the tent and in the coming few years they could wear the denomination down. Only a few years though, there was an impatience and a desire to punish a church that didn’t endorse their lifestyle.
In that denomination I observed that, for the most part, men and women with a heart for ministry were content to stay near home and do the work of the church. Those who had a political agenda, like this one, were strongly drawn to the political hierarchy of the denomination, desiring to use it’s ‘bully pulpit’ to further their ideology.
So, yes, as long as a denomination fails to observe that homosexuality is clearly contradictory to Biblical teaching, it will have to contend with a steady political onslaught from within. It is doubly hard since the mainstream media seem to delight in abusing conservatives, but then Christ did not promise that following Him would be easy.
[10] Posted by Father Wash-Ashore on 7-17-2012 at 08:05 AM · [top]
I wonder how much money Gene Robinson, Susan Russell and the PB have cost the church?
[11] Posted by hoggy on 7-17-2012 at 02:10 PM · [top]
It’s nice to dream. There are a few in the HOB of TEC that would agree with DeYoung. You don’t hear much from them because they would instantly be notified that they are invited to the Title IV disciplinary…err…pastoral process.
The problem is that the strongest parishes are made of of center-right to right people. 815 knows that it cannot survive without these people. Eventually it will have to do without them, because they will not be able to find anything other than far left clergy. Then, they will leave because it will affect them directly. It’s been playing out in a great many parishes for years now.
The result is that, in order to hold on to the institution as long as possible, 815 is going to strangle the center and right hoping that by some miraculous turn of events, people start buying what they are selling.
But again, it is nice to dream.
[12] Posted by observer145 on 7-19-2012 at 08:03 AM · [top]
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