The words, “amicable separation,” have been used quite frequently in these latter/last days of the Episcopal Church. Bishop Duncan used them in his address to the Network Conference in Pittsburgh in late July of this year. The concept of amicable separation is implicit in the combined Alternative Primatial Oversight requests that seek both “disassociation” from the current leadership of the Episcopal Church and a “cease-fire” with them. The possibility of amicable separation was apparently entertained at the September summit meeting in New York. And an amicable separation of “ecclesiastical structures” seems to be the desired outcome of the Kigali proposals found in section 10 of the Communique.
For many orthodox Anglicans a friendly parting is the longed for end of our current difficulties.
Last week we learned that there are at least some on the revisionist side of the current hostilities who share that same hope. St. Andrew’s parish in the Diocese of Springfield has, at the very least, asked for DEPO and no less than a personage than Jim Naughton of the diocese of Washington (though not in an official capacity) has suggested a “grass-roots” movement toward the same.
Personally speaking, I think some form of institution separation is inevitable and necessary both for the sake of orthodox Anglicanism (as I have argued many times before and will, therefore, not repeat here) and for the sake of charity.
I say charity because there comes a point in broken relations when institutional unity actually makes charity impossible.
I can and do enjoy close friendships with people from different faith traditions. I have, for example, a good Jewish friend. We fundamentally disagree on core and essential matters. We can argue vigorously about Jesus Christ, who he is and what he has done, and yet part ways at the end closer friends than before. The vigor, in fact, with which we argue our case, lends greater respect and admiration to our friendship. I take absolutely no offense when my Jewish friend (or anyone from another faith tradition) tries to persuade me that Jesus is not the God-Man and he, apparently, takes no offense when I argue that he is.
And yet were my friend, without changing his mind about Jesus, to join my parish and claim to be a Christian and then demand to be baptized (or confirmed or ordained etc…) our love for one another would almost certainly wane. I could not accede to his demands and my refusal to acknowledge the validity of his “Christianity” would doubtless make it difficult for us to relate charitably.
In the same way, were I to join his synagogue and claim to be an orthodox Jew all the while proclaiming the divinity of Christ and ignoring the requirements of the law, he would find it difficult, impossible in fact, to recognize the legitimacy of my claim and our friendship would be strained.
In both cases, far from enhancing our relationship, an attempt at institutional unity would all but destroy it.
Why? Because it would be a lie.
There is a deep personal and intellectual difference between us with regard to the person and work of Jesus Christ. The difference divides to the core. And yet the institutional separation between church and synagogue that marks that difference provides the space necessary for both mutual respect and a lasting friendship. Though knowing it to be incomplete, I deeply respect my friend’s faith. He, no doubt, feels the same.
One reason the dispute in the Episcopal Church has become so hostile is that both sides believe that the other is somehow subverting the true identity and nature of Anglicanism.
Regardless of who is correct (and, of course, I think we are), the truth is that there are two separate faiths stuck together, superficially, in one house. In this sense the PB-elect’s “conjoined twins” analogy was quite correct.
The problem is that the longer we remain institutionally “conjoined” the more vitriolic and debased we will become.
As a matter of principle, orthodox Anglicans cannot and will not stop proclaiming orthodoxy nor will we cease publicly defending the Church and identifying those who would subvert it. No doubt many on the revisionist left would say the same. Our differences are core and essential and therefore our conflict is intractable. We cannot just “get along.” Both sides, due to the nature of faith itself, must succeed or die trying. This has bred and will continue to breed contempt, disdain, and, ultimately, mutual destruction.
This is at least half of the reason why, for the sake of charity and the sake of the one institution both sides profess to love, I believe amicable separation is necessary.
But this, of course, begs a further question. What is amicable separation? What would it look like and might it perhaps result in a return of charity?
Bishop Duncan in his Network Conference address (referenced above) held up a number of models, Overland Park, Kansas being one. In that case, the bishop and the parish worked out an arrangement, both financial and institutional, that allowed for a peaceful parting. Another recent example of amicable separation is the departure of Christ Church, Plano from the Diocese of Dallas. My guess is that similar negotiations are ongoing throughout the Episcopal Church.
Along those lines, and by way of sparking a discussion, Jim Naughton has sent the following two questions via email:
1. What is the most constructive way to handle the property issues? My opinion on this matter is not firmly held, but I guess I think that below-market sales to the departing parish would work best. This assumes the parish can bear the cost. Perhaps a lease works better if the parish isn’t in the position to buy the property. A lease may also work best if the theological majority in the parish is a) narrow and b) recent. In such a circumstance, reconciliation might actually be possible.
2. What is the best way to handle the jurisdictional issues? Would you rather be a ember of another province? A separate Anglican entity within the U. S? A new province within the Episcopal Church? To my surprise, I would prefer the first option, largely because it is cleaner. And, I must confess, because I think there are churches in other provinces that would like to belong to the Episcopal Church, and I would like them to have that opportunity.
I told Mr. Naughton that I believe a discussion across the lines on these issues could potentially be quite fruitful. As many of you know, Jim Naughton clearly stands on what most Stand Firm readers would consider the revisionist side of things so it is, for me, encouraging to read his suggestions.
I invite vigorous but respectful debate with regard to Mr. Naughton’s two questions/suggestions as well as suggestions, criticisms, and thoughts of your own.
Do you think the time to talk amicable split has come? If so, how do we sort through the details?
Matt, thanks for taking this on. And thanks for this sentence, in particular: “The problem is that the longer we remain institutionally ‘conjoined’ the more vitriolic and debased we will become.”
I thnk any honest blog jockey has to admit that we run the risk of debasement almost every time we arch our fingers over the keyborad.