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Stand Firm Interviews: The Rev. Mark Lawrence

Monday, March 19, 2007 • 6:00 am

The Rev. Mark Lawrence is rector of St. Paul's Episcopal Church in Bakersfield, California, and is the bishop-elect of the Diocese of South Carolina. Last week, Presiding Bishop Schori ruled his election "null and void" due to technical deficiencies in some of the consents. Lawrence is the first Episcopal bishop-elect in half a century not to receive consent.
Greg Griffith: What canonical options do you see for the Diocese of South Carolina now over the next few months?

Mark Lawrence: The canonical options are for them to look at their diocesan canons and constitution and the canons and constitution of the Episcopal Church and to see what the direction is, it's that simple. The canonical option - there is no other option - that's it.

Greg Griffith: So, as you understand it, is it or is it not an option to hold the election again with you as a candidate, or as the only candidate?

Mark Lawrence: I'm not sitting here looking at the canons of the Diocese of South Carolina, I don't even have them. I'm not looking at the canons of the Episcopal Church, but I know what it says, it says that the diocese shall hold another election. It doesn't say whether the person can be elected, I'm sure they can. It's happened before, so it can be. The question is what the standing committee will do - that's a simple one.

Greg Griffith: If, in fact, another election is held and you are eligible to stand for election, would you want to do so?

Mark Lawrence: In some strange kind of way, the heart of my wife, and my heart, have been knit to the people of South Carolina over the last five months, and from the standpoint of whether I would want to go through this again, no I don't want to go through the abuse again, but I would consider it for the sake of the people of South Carolina, if that was their choice, and if God called me to do that again, I shall do it. But nobody would want to go through this abuse. I've been asked questions and more variety of questions, as far as I could tell, than any other candidate in the history of the Episcopal Church, at least in the modern era.

I mean, they were parsing the word "intention." One standing committee member, who was trying to get his committee to focus not on what I have done, but on what I might do, asked me what my intentions were. So, I write in the statement on March 8, "My intention is..." and what happens on the House of Deputies listserv and just about every other liberal blog? "Lawrence says 'intention.' The path to hell is paved with good intentions."

What do they want here? Do they want me to bow my knee to the almighty institution, and elevate it over the Scriptures - over the teachings of the one holy and apostolic church - over the worldwide Anglican Communion - or successive Lambeth Conferences? I'm not going to do it. It is all those things together that make us Episcopalians. You cannot be an Episcopalian without those things. They define our canons. Our canons don't define them.

Greg Griffith: When you were elected, I think most people, at least those over here on the conservative side, assumed that it would be a somewhat closer call than normal. But most of us figured that only the real doomsday types were thinking, with any seriousness, "Oh, I doubt he'll get consent." Were you surprised at how difficult it was - how challenging the whole process was?

Mark Lawrence: No. I've been to General Convention in 2003 and 2006. I was on the committee for the consecration of bishops. I've been in the middle of the fray, whether I wanted to be or not, and it hasn't surprised me at all. What surprises me is how few people understand the gravity of the situation in the Episcopal Church.

As I said before, this whole election process has drawn back the curtain on the stage of the Episcopal Church, and what the whole world can see right now is the theater of the absurd. If you've been in the play before, you are not surprised at Act III.

Greg Griffith: Do you think this is being observed closely by the Primates and ++Rowan Williams, and what do you think their reaction is likely to be?

Mark Lawrence: I don't have the slightest idea what their reaction will be. I suppose it will be mixed. I'm so grateful, words cannot express how grateful I am to the Primates of the Anglican Communion for their communique issued at Dar es Salaam, for the sacrifice that many millions of Christians are making for the cause of orthodox Christianity in Africa, and the way they have extended themselves. I am also grateful for the Archbishop of Canterbury's role in Tanzania. I'm grateful for the things he has issued - for his letter issued after General Convention in 2006, and I'm grateful for his recent letter issued to the Episcopal Church and to the Primates summing up what the communique is all about. That is Anglicanism as I understand it.

Greg Griffith: Soon after your election, talk started circulating about the possibility of your not getting consent. A few influential conservative leaders speculated that should that happen, it might hasten a communion-wide split, because it would so clearly and finally signal to the rest of the communion that there's no longer any place for traditional Anglicans in the Episcopal Church, that orthodox primates would throw up their hands and say there's no hope of rescuing it.

Mark Lawrence: I think the jury is still out on that one. What has been going on in the Episcopal Church, let's say for the past 25 years - we can go back further if you want, but for the last 25 years - in my opinion, a radical group in the Episcopal Church has been pushing an agenda, it is essentially a political agenda, a social justice agenda. And the sad thing is that because they've always framed it as social justice, it has hindered the debate that needs to take place over the teachings of Scripture, the nature of a human being, and all sorts of other things.

For the most part, those of us in the orthodox camp have been pastoring our churches, preaching the Gospel, trying to grow our congregations, and ignoring the political issue at hand until, in recent years, in successive General Conventions, even before '03 and '06 certainly, but '03 and '06 galvanized the orthodox in a way that they weren't before. Anyway, in the orthodox camp - what I'd call mainstream Anglicanism in the Episcopal Church in the United States - we began to see that we had better enter into the political debate. That, then, began a polarization within the Episcopal Church between what some call the left and others call the right, whether one wants to call it - progressive or reappraising, reassertive, all sorts of those terms, it doesn't matter, we all know who the players are - that has grown so polarized that the broad middle has become very uncomfortable, many of them have chosen to put their heads deep in the sand. Others have chosen to say, "You know, I wish these people wouldn't fight so much."

Until the Primates communique, it was mostly those in the orthodox camp who talked about leaving, or who did leave. The dynamics have been like a dysfunctional family - where two members are quibbling with each other and the others don't want to get involved in the quibbling - when Mom says, "I can't take Dad's abuse anymore," and the children turn on Mom and say, "Mom, why are you ruining our family?" Now, the problem is, anyone who stands up to those in the radical camp, those who are pushing this political agenda, are immediately called homophobic, bigots, reactionary, and whatnot. Nobody in their right mind wants to be called homophobic, bigoted, or reactionary. I understand that. And so the broad middle have not gotten involved very much, and when they have, they've blamed those of us on the orthodox side who say, "We can't take it anymore. We're leaving."

Now, what happened in General Convention 2006, and the passing of B033, the middle said, "Hey, we don't want to leave the Anglican Communion." And so they rose for a brief moment. Now, the message that I think the rejection of my election in South Carolina is sending to the broad middle of the Episcopal Church, which for the most part is uninvolved in this debate, is that it's time that you wake up, if you want the Episcopal Church to look anything like you've known in the past - one that really is a place where people of different perspectives can live out their Christian lives under the grace of Jesus Christ.

For the past 20 years, the virtue of tolerance has been the virtue before which all other virtues have bent the knee. I think people are beginning to see that without the other virtues, tolerance is not a virtue that can stand on its own. Without truth, without honesty, without integrity, without the classical virtues of prudence or wisdom, temperance, justice, courage, faith, hope, and love... tolerance will not survive. What we see in my election is that tolerance is not sufficient, inclusivity is not sufficient. That is why, in the wisdom of the ages, we've had seven virtues, to deal with the seven deadly sins of pride, envy, sloth, greed, anger, gluttony and lust. So, I think there will arise a generation who will see that tolerance is, of course, a precious thing, and ought to be honored, but she is not the virtue before which all other virtues must bend the knee. She is a virtue with which all of the other virtues need to live, and that tolerance needs to find her rightful place among the others.

We in the orthodox camp don't want to be painted with the brush that we are intolerant or that we are not inclusive. The irony of this is, I had more gay and lesbian parishioners here at St. Paul's before 2003 than I have now. And here is the thing I'd love to have a research project done on: I bet that since 2003, evangelical Episcopal churches have lost more gay and lesbian persons to other denominations than progressive Episcopalians have brought in. And, that is because, as William Temple once put it decades ago, "The church must be very clear in its public pronouncements, so she can be very pastoral in her application." Now, isn't that ironic? I know gay persons who have gone from the Episcopal to the Roman Catholic Church. And I've asked them why, and they say "It's because homosexuality is a settled question in Roman Catholicism."

Greg Griffith: Back to the people in the unengaged middle. You say this should be a wake-up call to them, that this should cause them finally to get engaged. But why? Why should they get engaged over something as arcane as Mark Lawrence’s failure to obtain consent?

Mark Lawrence: It’s not really about that. It’s what that whole rejection represents. Here you have a priest who has served the church for almost 27 years in ordained ministry without a single black mark on his record, who has under God’s grace grown every congregation that he has been a part of - numerically, financially, spiritually - and who before that worked as a lay person in his parish church, who was put forward, drafted if you will, to be a bishop; and because he puts his allegiance to Jesus Christ, the trustworthiness of the Scriptures, the teachings and fellowship of the one Holy, Catholic and Apostolic Church, the teaching and communion of the Anglican Communion as essential aspects of what it means to be an Episcopalian... he has to be rejected. Therein lies the theatre of the absurd. Bishops have been approved in this Church who have failed to keep the most sacred of vows, and when I've gladly kept mine for three decades, they still question whether I'll keep the Oath of Conformity.

Greg Griffith: I have said often over the last few years that about the worst thing that you can say to folks in the unengaged middle is that there is something wrong with the Episcopal Church, that it's dysfunctional, it’s unhealthy, it’s sick and it needs help.

Mark Lawrence: Well we know what families do when someone faces the specter that there may be dysfunction there. The whole ethos of denial enters in and you have to do something with the person who is trying to intervene. You have to discount or discredit them.

Greg Griffith: You have to shoot the messenger.

Mark Lawrence: There you go.

Greg Griffith: What has been the most painful aspect of the past six months? I have a sense that the real story is not that there were irregularities that shaved off a few points from the score. It's like a football team in the playoffs that loses by a field goal, then blames it on a holding call in the second quarter.

Mark Lawrence: Right... it's not bad refereeing!

Greg Griffith: A team that deserves to win the big game has to put it out of reach, so that it won't be close. That is the story here. It would have been one thing if we had gotten what we expected: A slim but safe win. What we got, though, barely qualified as slim.

Mark Lawrence: I think it's hard not to see the hand of God in this. That it comes down to a church that has jettisoned the trustworthiness of Scripture and the historic teachings of the church, and relies increasingly on its polity, its constitutions and canons, that it comes down to canonical interpretation. Only God can so craft something to make it end up that way. A touch of irony.

Greg Griffith: Let's shift gears and talk about the challenges to you and your family over the past five months. Can you talk about some of that?

Mark Lawrence: Let me just talk about the whole process. It began for me, I think it was March 25, 2006. We had the Order of St. Luke's here at St. Paul's on a healing conference. They took the initiative to book Father Michael Flynn who came from Fresh Wind's ministry to lead a weekend on healing. On Saturday, late morning, after several teachings, he said, "I'm just gong to serenade you [the group] in the Spirit." He has a beautiful Irish baritone voice. As he began to sing I saw myself journeying through different lands. Then I heard the words, "The journey begins, the journey begins, the begins. Pack your things, pack your things, pack your things. Give your children your blessing. You've been in one place long enough." Then the Spirit of God came over me in such a way that I just began to weep there at the table quietly. I was just overwhelmed with the sense of God's presence, that He had spoken. During the break I met with my wife in the office and I said, "What happened to you during that time?," and of course she told me, and then I began to tell her what happened to me, and as soon as I began speaking the words of the prophetic word that came to me, "The journey begins..." the Spirit of God came upon her and she began to weep. She hardly heard the rest of the words, she was so overcome, undone. She quotes those words of St. Augustine, "He wrapped me in His splendor and sent my blindness reeling."

And, so, we didn't know exactly what that meant. We just lived with that through lent and the first couple of Sundays of Easter, and then, I think it was around May 1st, or the last Sunday, April 30, something like that, and I got a phone call from a friend in Columbus, Ohio, who's never done this before, and he said, "I was praying for you this morning, and God spoke so profoundly to me, and said that he was going to be moving you from being the pastor at St. Paul's Episcopal parish, and to move you into a role of preparing the faithful for the battle ahead." I didn't know what to make of that.

Wednesday of that week I'm in my office saying morning prayer and my devotions, and I get a phone call from the retired bishop of Pittsburgh, Bishop Alden Hathaway. He said, "Mark," and he's tried to get me into episcopal elections before and I've just stayed out of them, "I wonder if you'd be willing to allow your name to be put in for the bishop search for the Diocese of South Carolina." I didn't know anything about it. I hadn't been following it. You know, just doing my ministry here. And, given the prophetic word that I'd heard in late March, and what my friend had said, I just heard my self saying, "yes." The "yes" came out of my mouth before I could put it in. And, with the "yes" came a sense of ominous, "Oh my gosh." I couldn't get it back. It came out of my mouth before I could stop it. And, of course, Alden was completely surprised. He was stunned. He said, "I thought I was going to have to twist your arm." I said, "Bishop, you are no more surprised than I am." Well, suddenly I was sucked into the vortex, if you will, of this search process, and before you know it, there I am one of the finalists, and it was astonishing. The things I've noticed over the last couple of months, as some of these bloggers on the left have said, "Why in the world does he want to be a bishop?" I wanted to say, "Who in the hell said I wanted to be one!?" I was drafted. I didn't necessarily think I was called to be bishop of South Carolina. I didn't know what I was called to me. I did believe that God had called me to be a part of the process. I mean, He said, "The journey begins," I don't know where it's going - where the destiny is. I just knew that I was on a journey.

I began to realize something just before the walkabout and the election taking place, and that was, "Mark, you have to begin to own this. You can't see it as just God calling you to be a part of the process. You have to personally begin to own it." The thought of that filled me with dread. I can't tell you how profoundly dreadful it made me feel. It is beyond words to tell you how dreadful it was. After the election, I lived with that dread up until Sunday night before the deadline for consents, and it suddenly lifted. I don't even know how to go about describing that. It was a path I was prescribed to walk, and if I sound exuberant now - these reporters are probably surprised that a person is not downcast, that sort of thing - no rejection could be anywhere near the heaviness of that dread that I lived with for five months. Added to that is that my wife's heart was so profoundly inclined towards the good people of South Carolina - she just fell in love with the people there and the whole place - so she was continuously having her heart go there and then seeing the developments and having to pull it back, so it has been an emotional struggle for her having to continuously relinquish and surrender this whole sense - she felt a sense of call, I just felt a sense of, "I'm in this. I will be faithful to this." I don't know what it means, but it's my burden to carry.

Greg Griffith: Ellis Brust and Steve Wood were the other candidates. Do you think there would have been a difference in the outcome had one of them been elected? In other words, was this a debate about the man Mark Lawrence, or about the Diocese of S.C. and how others perceive it and its future direction?

Mark Lawrence: If you had asked me in the first months of the consent process, I would have said it was about the issues, I think it eventually became, not about Mark Lawrence, but about the issues of APO and the theological debates within the church. I think it started out like that. I think pretty soon it did become about Mark Lawrence because certain persons made it about Mark Lawrence. I didn't make it about Mark Lawrence; others did. They did that because they are so committed to their agenda that anyone who stands in the way becomes part of the problem and needs to be dealt with. Eventually, they would have done the same thing to Steve, they would have done the same thing to Ellis, they would have just have had to take different tacks. I had certain things that I had written that they could try to exploit, misquote, misrepresent, decontexulize, whatever... and they did that. I don’t know if I take it personally, even though they have made it personal. This Sunday [March 18] I am preaching - I’ve been doing a series during Lent on the Lord’s Prayer - and this Sunday is "Forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us." So I find myself asking, 'is there anyone in this whole process that I need to forgive, and if so how do I go about doing that?' If there is someone, then I’ve allowed it to become personal, too. I’m not sure, I haven’t had anyone come to mind. Certainly there are people who have led the charge against me. There are four stages of forgiveness: 'You’ve hurt me and you’ve hurt me badly" is stage 1. Stage 2 is "It wasn’t okay then, and it’s not okay now, and if I live to be 100 years old it won’t be okay." Stage 3 is "I surrender my right to get even." If there is a just universe and someone has done me wrong I have a right to get even. So in Stage 3, I surrender my right to get even. Stage 4 is reconciliation: "I allow you back into my life."

Now, one can only reconcile completely with someone who has acknowledged their part in the wounding. For the most part I haven’t allowed this to become personal with most of my accusers. But I do find their tactics unconscionable, and in some ways abusive, and, you know, if we are going to have a discussion, let’s have a level playing field. If you are going to quote someone, don’t quote them out of context. Don’t misrepresent their position because then you don’t get at what needs to be discussed. This church is in desperate need of a genuine conversation and debate about its future, and many, because of their commitment to their agenda, are truncating that debate.

Greg Griffith: One of the more controversial statements you've made was in response to a question regarding how hard you would work to keep the Diocese of South Carolina in the Episcopal Church. You replied something to the effect of, "As hard as the other bishops of the Episcopal Church work to keep us in the Anglican Communion."

Mark Lawrence: Well, that is a turn of phrase that is meant not to be evasive but to be a call to mutual accountability. That is, Lambeth '48, Lambeth '78, Lambeth '88, Lambeth '98 - all used the term when speaking about the Anglican Communion, mutual accountability. The bishops of the Episcopal church attended those Lambeth conferences and up until 1998 for the most part went in favor of all those votes on all of the issues. Now what happened in 1998 is the shameful accusations that those on the orthodox wing of the Episcopal church began buying chicken dinners for the African bishops in order to get their votes. How insulting. How shameful, how racists. The reality is that those were bishops who have faced persecution and in some cases close to martyrdom; are in death struggles with political and religious struggles that we in the U.S. can't hold a candle to in terms of persecution, and to dare suggest that they could be bought by chicken dinners is insulting. Anyway, so you see, in all this debate about autonomy, the fact of the matter is that since the bishops of The Episcopal church have been participating in the Lambeth conferences and signed on in 48, 78, 88 and 98 to the mutual accountability phrase, we are already in a state in which we are called to live with mutual accountability by their own acquiescence to it. And that is somewhat, some would say, already a surrender of complete autonomy if we are to be Anglicans. But what has happened is there has arisen a generation of leaders in the Episcopal Church who know not Joseph. They know not the language of Zion, so to speak. They are ignorant of the history of the Anglican Communion for the most part and Anglicanism by and large, and now are describing us who are part of the mainstream of the Anglican Church as extremists. We are just trying to bring a little of reality into a church which has become increasingly marginalized by its commitment to in-house causes and special interest groups of the extreme political left.

That term, "mutual accountability." is a term used within the Anglican Communion for the national or the provincial churches of the Anglican Communion to keep in mind in all there deliberations and polity and national Christian life.

Greg Griffith: Right, but to describe TEC's leadership as "mutually accountable" could not be less accurate.

Mark Lawrence: Well that is the posture that some are taking and even as they look at the Primates' Communiqué, more than a few of them have stood up and said, we don't want to be accountable to you. Now let's hope that by September 30 there is a majority of Bishops who are willing to say we want to be mutually accountable, we want to be in a covenant relationship with the Anglican Communion. We see that one of the things that it means to be an Episcopalian is to be an Anglican.

Greg Griffith: Let me wrap up by asking you to comment on Jan Nunley’s recent remark regarding the communique, which was, "It’s not an ultimatum unless you think it is."

Mark Lawrence: That term, "ultimatum," does not come from the communiqué. The term "ultimatum" is coming, obviously, from a church that is grappling with the appeal of the primates for the Episcopal church to seek the communion. To begin to use that kind of term - "ultimatum" - is already a breach of affection. It is like a family member responding to another family member's urge to be in love and fellowship with one another by saying. "Is this an ultimatum?" It comes out of a willfulness that is unbecoming of the Christian. And so to use that kind of term - to say that that is what the primates are doing - misunderstands the spirit of the communiqué. It misunderstands the heart of the archbishop. It misunderstands the heart of the primates. It is a sad self-indictment.

Greg Griffith: But don’t you think that kind of misunderstanding is what led to this crisis in the first place - to the crisis to which the communiqué is just the latest response?

Mark Lawrence: The willfulness of a church that will exalt its autonomy over others, that will function unilaterally, breaching the bonds of affection, is what has led to the need for the communiqué, but frankly that was seen coming by many within the church, when in '48, '78, '88 and '98 the term "mutual accountability" came to the fore. You see, we are not talking about a decade; we are talking about two generations of rising willfulness against the fellowship of the communion, and that has got to grieve the heart of God and it has to grieve the heart of every Episcopalian who sees what it means to be an Episcopalian, to be in communion with the See of Canterbury, to be a constituent member of this glorious thing we call the Anglican Communion, and to be what we have in the past rejoiced to call ourselves Episcopalians.



Jackie Bruchi and Andy Figueroa contributed to this interview.
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Comments:

Thank you Greg and Fr. Lawrence for bringing out the full story of the formation of the problems, the person, the process and the present status of the Episcopal election in SC and the state of TEC as you have lieved through it.

As I pray today, I believe God is using these events to bring the Gospel to those who will listen, bind up the broken hearted, encourage the weak and care for the abandoned and imprisoned.

God wins.

[1] Posted by Bob Maxwell+ on 03-19-2007 at 07:01 AM • top

Greg, thanks for doing this—great job!

My favorite part of the interview is this one: “For the past 20 years, the virtue of tolerance has been the virtue before which all other virtues have bent the knee. I think people are beginning to see that without the other virtues, tolerance is not a virtue that can stand on its own. Without truth, without honesty, without integrity, without the classical virtues of prudence or wisdom, temperance, justice, courage, faith, hope, and love… tolerance will not survive. What we see in my election is that tolerance is not sufficient, inclusivity is not sufficient. That is why, in the wisdom of the ages, we’ve had seven virtues, to deal with the seven deadly sins of pride, envy, sloth, greed, anger, gluttony and lust. So, I think there will arise a generation who will see that tolerance is, of course, a precious thing, and ought to be honored, but she is not the virtue before which all other virtues must bend the knee. She is a virtue with which all of the other virtues need to live, and that tolerance needs to find her rightful place among the others.”

[2] Posted by Sarah on 03-19-2007 at 07:04 AM • top

Yes, “bind up the broken-hearted”.. Thanks Fr. Bob.  Believe me, there are many, many in the Dio of SC that are indeed “broken-hearted”.

One cannot even imagine how Fr. Lawrence touched our hearts. It was truly amazing, we knew almost from the beginning that he was the Bishop for us. And it seemed to become even clearer from reports as he interacted with our clergy and others as time went by.

We need him, and truly believe that he is not only a true man of God, but the best we can possibly ask for as Bishop.

Grannie Gloria, a boondocks Anglican in SC

[3] Posted by Grandmother on 03-19-2007 at 07:16 AM • top

Thank you, Greg.

I liked his answer about if one of the other candidates were elected instead. I think Mark Lawrence has been doing a lot of praying and dealing with Lord, because that is a very honest but gracious answer of what gone on and assessment of the current state of relations.

[4] Posted by Hosea6:6 on 03-19-2007 at 07:26 AM • top

I hope someone will let us know when the first post hits on the HOBD listserve drawing attention to this interview and saying, “I told you so.  We did the right thing.”  It’ll be interesting to see just what part of the interview they reference.

[5] Posted by Widening Gyre on 03-19-2007 at 07:48 AM • top

“And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony”  Rev 12:11a

[6] Posted by Jill Woodliff on 03-19-2007 at 08:06 AM • top

***HIT****
posted at 9:00 am, probably mountain, or central time

NO COMMENT added.

Grannie Gloria

[7] Posted by Grandmother on 03-19-2007 at 08:17 AM • top

Mark+ and Greg, nice job.  Nice touch to post it on the Feast of St. Joseph.  Greg, What is the date of this interview ?

[8] Posted by Jennie on 03-19-2007 at 08:31 AM • top

Jennie,

Fr. Lawrence and I spoke on Friday, March 16.

[9] Posted by Greg Griffith on 03-19-2007 at 08:35 AM • top

Congratulations on an excellent piece. I would be proud to serve under Fr. Lawrence.

[10] Posted by Anglican Paplist on 03-19-2007 at 09:27 AM • top

Wow.  I’m in awe here.  I’ve understood this man to be something special, but his forthrightness and graciousness in being blunt about the issues just doesn’t sound like the bishops I’ve known.

If he stands for election again, I expect this interview will make things both harder and easier for him and those with the responsibility to give consents.

Harder in that he will endure some serious personal attacks, which up to now, have been child’s play.  The progressive left will not like being called racists, intolerant, unloving and unaccountable, all terms used or implied in this interview.  They will bring out the big guns and seek to destroy Fr. Lawrence’s character and family life.  Nothing about this is going to be fair for Fr. Lawrence, his family or the either the diocese of San Joaquin or South Carolina.

It will be easier in that the issues will be clear to diocesan leadership responsible for consents as to where Fr. Lawrence stands.  If it is true that vast majority want to get along and stop the fighting between the two polarized sides, this interview could make things easier for them by doing one of two things.  Either it will help them end the family fight, or it will help them choose sides in the divorce amidst all the acrimony and bitterness that occurs in such nasty situations.  At least the blinders will be off at the leadership level.

[11] Posted by Rom 1:16 on 03-19-2007 at 09:30 AM • top

Those who God uses most effectively are often those who desire that position least. I think +Lawrence highlights that.

Now, if only our President and others in places of power were elected with that in mind…

[12] Posted by Josh Oxley on 03-19-2007 at 09:44 AM • top

Thank you Father Lawrence and Greg.  As a parishioner in the Diocese of SC, I hope and pray Father Lawrence goes the distance with us, while also knowing it’s a hard thing to ask of him and his family.  In my opinion, the Lord has shown us who we need.  I was one of those who, after the nominations were first posted, said, “What about so-in-so already in the diocese?” but it’s been obvious for months now that God knew who to call.  The sad, but true, thing is our diocese won’t want anyone as our bishop that TEC readily accepts without a fight. 

Father Lawrence, there is one blessing out of this, for which I am sorry you’ve had to pay the price.  I think there were many in the diocese who had their head in the sand about what was going on . . . this has been a true wakeup call and education for many.  Having parishioners who finally get the big picture is a good thing.

[13] Posted by Tami on 03-19-2007 at 09:57 AM • top

The only travesty of “justice” that I see is that this gentleman is not a Bishop yet. 

“And the sad thing is that because they’ve always framed it as social justice, it has hindered the debate that needs to take place over the teachings of Scripture, the nature of a human being, and all sorts of other things”.

Yeah, but they don’t want to go there because they’ll lose those arguments.  It’s more effective to assume a posture of victimhood. 

I can see why the HOB doesn’t want Fr. Lawrence in their midst—he’ll make a lot of the rest of them look bad.

And yet, I remember that God rules and patience is one of the virtues….

grin 

I hold the Lawrence family and the people of South Carolina in my prayers. 

For all those who consider themselves “moderates” and think that NONE of this has anything to do with you, my advice is to open your eyes, smell the coffee, and GET WITH THE PROGRAM. 

IC,

J.

[14] Posted by Orthoducky on 03-19-2007 at 10:03 AM • top

The section on forgiveness and reconciliation was one of the best summaries of what it means to live out the Christian ideal of “as we forgive those who trespass against us”.

It also points out the problem I have with ++KJS and her use of the phrase “waging reconciliation”. There can be no reconciliation until both parties are willing to recognize the damage and the hurt caused by the actions of one or both of them. The revisionist activists are unwilling to do so.

[15] Posted by Allen Lewis on 03-19-2007 at 10:31 AM • top

Thanks for this interview Greg, Jackie, and Andy. I can only say impressive.

Fr. Mark, were all behind you whatever happens. We need more like you in the TEC.

[16] Posted by Marlin on 03-19-2007 at 10:53 AM • top

I know that God is going to use this and that I have to be patient and wait and pray that He will reveal what He will have me do, if anything. Not to follow my passions and go out to small groups in every congregation in this state and tell them, “See, THIS is how tolerant they truly are, THIS is their example of inclusivity - there’s an agenda here and you all are pawns in it.” Please Lord, help me. Turn this anger to something You can use, action that glorifies You.

Yes, Grannie Gloria, that one was entirely predictable, even if one of the more lame ones. Amusing that “middle of the road” seems to mean lemming-like, easily herded and led.

[17] Posted by Dazzled on 03-19-2007 at 11:16 AM • top

Wow. What a remarkable man—Fr. Lawrence is truly being used by God.  We need bishops like him—full of grace and mercy, yet willing to speak the truth of Scripture without equivocation. 
Jane (Edwin’s wife)

[18] Posted by Edwin on 03-19-2007 at 03:11 PM • top

Father Lawrence - you baptized my daughter Sabrina; you explained to me the reason why God loved us; my son faced death knowing that God loved him and accepted with his illness - thanks to you; upon his death you helped with the words I needed for his eulogy to let others kbow about God’s love for his children ... and gave me peace and comfort through the arms of our Lord.  Now, I must ask you one more favor - go the distance, the church needs you.

Rich
Fort Worth

[19] Posted by Rich on 03-19-2007 at 09:01 PM • top

The authority of the Lambeth Conference?

1908 rejected contraception…accepted 1930
1948 rejected female ordination…accepted 1968
1898 Polygamy rejected…..........accepted 1998

Even the Communique concedes the consensus on homosexuality could change.

[20] Posted by robert ian williams on 03-20-2007 at 12:36 AM • top

But Robert Ian Williams,

What you have just cited seems to provide evidence for  the authority of Lambeth [other than, of course, the liberal spin that the 1998 Lambeth “accepted” polygamy, which it did not].

Just to insert this fact into the thread—although I suspect that most people, including Robert Ian Williams, know it already—the polygamy decision allowed people who had already married more than one person prior to conversion to not divorce the multiple wives after conversion due to the economic hardship that would fall on the wives who were divorced.  In other words, what you do prior to your baptism still has consequences after your baptism.

In the African provinces, such converts are not allowed to seek ordination as clergy, and cease sexual relations with all other “wives”, but continue supporting them financially.  If someone marries another wife after conversion such people are excommunicated.

For an excellent article on the continued bizarre whispering-behind-hands campaign of certain progressives concerning polygamy, see Jackie’s article here:
http://www.standfirminfaith.com/index.php/site/article/1177/

[21] Posted by Sarah on 03-20-2007 at 05:43 AM • top

What follows is from an atricle in National Review (10/5/92) by Oxford Scholar John Grey.  Read it all at: http://www.findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1282/is_n19_v44/ai_12846893

Toleration is unfashionable for another, more topical reason. It is unavoidably and inherently judgmental. When we tolerate a practice, a belief, or a character trait, we let something be that we judge to be undesirable, false, or at least inferior; our toleration expresses the conviction that, despite its badness, the object of toleration should be left alone. This is in truth the very idea of toleration, as it is practiced in things great and small. So it is that our tolerance of our friends’ vices makes them no less vices in our eyes: rather, our tolerance presupposes that they are vices. As the Oxford analytical philosophers of yesteryear might have put it, it is the logic of toleration that it can be practiced only in respect of evils. So, on a grander scale, we tolerate ersatz religions, such as Scientology, not because we think they may after all contain a grain of truth, but because the great good of freedom of belief necessarily encompasses the freedom to believe absurdities. Toleration is not, then, an expression of doubt about our ability to tell the good from the bad; it is evidence of our confidence that we have that ability.
Such judgments are alien to the dominant conventional wisdom according to which standards of belief and conduct are entirely subjective or relative in character, and one view of things is as good as any other. A tolerant man does not doubt that he knows something about the good and the true; his tolerance expresses that knowledge. Indeed, when a society is tolerant, its tolerance expresses the conception of the good life that it has in common. Insofar as a society comes to lack any such common conception—as is at least partly the case in the U.S. and Britain today—it ceases to be capable of toleration as it was traditionally understood.
Toleration as a political ideal is offensive to the new liberalism—the liberalism of Rawls, Dworkin, Ackerman, and such like—because it is decidedly non-neutral in respect of the good. For the new liberals, justice the shibboleth of revisionist liberalism—demands that government, in its institutions and policies, practice neutrality, not toleration, in regard to rival conceptions of the good life. Although in the end this idea of neutrality may not prove to be fully coherent, its rough sense seems to be that it is wrong for government to discriminate in favor of, or against, any form of life animated by a definite conception of the good.

______________
I think this captures much of what is happening.

[22] Posted by Roger+ on 03-20-2007 at 08:51 AM • top

Dear Sarah….

but they still made a concesssion…what authority can a body have which changes with the wind. Either polygamy in the Christian dispensation is immorality or not. It was condemend at te firrst Lambeth, because Bishop Colenso wanted to give the same concession to Zulu converts.

I am not a liberal, (I am a convert to the Catholic Church, under the successor of St peter).....but you would be considered so for calling a man who believed women could be ordained, an orthodox candidate for the office of Bishop, prior to 1988.

Liberals are often accused of pick and choose theology, but so it seems are Anglican traditionalists.

Do you think the planters of South Carolina would have accepted a man with such views, and ” Romanist ” pretensions ( calling himself Father) in 1807 and 1907?

Would the Diocese of Sydney accept a Lawerence as orthodox .... I think not.

Hope this is thought provoking and taken in a spirit of Christian love.. I know that of all you at Stand Firm are sincere and good people.

[23] Posted by robert ian williams on 03-20-2007 at 11:07 AM • top

RE: “I am not a liberal, (I am a convert to the Catholic Church, under the successor of St peter).....but you would be considered so for calling a man who believed women could be ordained, an orthodox candidate for the office of Bishop, prior to 1988.”

Certainly would be considered “liberal”—doesn’t trouble me in the least, especially as any non-Roman Catholic would be considered “liberal” by Roman Catholics.

I am unconcerned by what people choose to think me, whether “orthodox” or “liberal”.

[24] Posted by Sarah on 03-20-2007 at 03:17 PM • top

And, so, we didn’t know exactly what that [prophetic word] meant.

Have we just been handed an Ishmael, when in fact God hasn’t sprang Isaac upon us?

[25] Posted by Moot on 03-20-2007 at 03:30 PM • top

This interview displays how much Lawrence dislikes the Episcopal Church and why he should not have any position in that denomination, let alone become a Bishop.

The right decision was made and no doubt he will depart from the Episcopal Church in due course.

[26] Posted by Merseymike on 03-20-2007 at 04:31 PM • top

The right decision was made and no doubt he will depart from the Episcopal Church in due course.

Actually, Merseymike, it would appear that the Episcopal Church has left him, just as it has left Christ and many of us who follow Him.

[27] Posted by Forgiven on 03-20-2007 at 04:42 PM • top

Actually, this interview help one understand that Fr. Lawrence’s allegiance is to his Savior first.  Imagine that?

It also proves how wrong some folks are to use their own judgement of him, and his motives instead of listening carefully to the Holy Spirit.

Grannie Gloria

[28] Posted by Grandmother on 03-20-2007 at 04:51 PM • top

MerseyMike,

1. As an non Anglican, infact non christian, why do you care?

2. Second, I believe you are incorrect, and that the interview shows a good shepard who disagrees with 815.

RSB

[29] Posted by R S Bunker on 03-20-2007 at 04:58 PM • top

Fr. Lawrence’s allegiance is to his Savior first. 

Grandmother, I think this is a concept that completely eludes the revisionists.

[30] Posted by Marlin on 03-20-2007 at 04:58 PM • top

Boy Merseymike, I so glad you’re so smart. I read the same interview and didn’t come away with quite the same disdain in Fr. Lawrence that you see. I’m also impressed with your prophetic prognostication of his hypothetical future actions. Boy I wish I were as smart as you ...  confused

[31] Posted by Hosea6:6 on 03-20-2007 at 05:49 PM • top

1. As an non Anglican, infact non christian, why do you care?

This is strictly a personal opinion…but, I believe that Mersymike is a poor sinner, floating out there in the ethric, looking for help. He challenges us on everything we believe; he counter s(usually weakly) with his own estimation of why we’re struggling. He’s never personally attacked anyone and, Sarah has declared him as a worthy opponent.

I would suggest to all of us, that Merseymike would like to be with us. But, I believe, he must test us first to see if we are deserving of him. And, that’s OK.

Eventually, Merseymike will buy in or he’ll opt out. And either course is OK…well, almost OK.

Sarah has done a good thing by accepting him as a worthy opponent/advisary.

However, I think he would like to be one of us and doesn’t know how. Unfortuantely, I don’t know how either but I believe that we can help him.

[32] Posted by Forgiven on 03-21-2007 at 07:21 PM • top

Let’s see if the formatting here works as it does at T19. …
Been There [07:21 PM] suggests that MerseyMike has something like an approach/avoidance thing going on with reasserter blogs. I don’t know, and certainly can’t speak for him. He does seem like an angry fellow just in general (go to his blog sometime).
I can say with great confidence that non-Christians do come by here, T19 and elsewhere, looking at y’all, sometimes in bemusement, sometimes in genuine interest. Some are angry, some hurt, some just “seeking”, as I think you call it. I’ve posted under this nom de blog over at T19 on and off for some time now, and I can at least speak for myself about why one non-Christian might lurk, comment, and sometimes get angry.
Those of you who are committed Christians may have forgotten … and if you grew up Christian, probably never knew … what it’s like to be outside a spiritual community looking in. People who join churches as a lifestyle accessory (and you know some do) aren’t going to get to emotionally exercised either way; people who are taking spiritual questions seriously, for whatever reason, often will get kind of emotional about it, as you well know. This can be true even if they have no “right” to do so (i.e., not members of the community, “no dog in the fight”). Much of what seems either normal or long-settled to you, may seem novel or unsettled to us, or simply in a very different context. We outsiders don’t know what you know, but don’t be too sure you know how it all looks to us, either. I think Been There is right to notice that MerseyMike is rather … engaged in all this for someone who doesn’t believe a word of it. I’m surprised that I’m as much drawn to Anglican Christianity as I seem to be, and I’m nominally atheist. Just not so angry, though I’ll admit I have gotten more testy at T19 on occasion than I meant to (Sarah called me on that at least once, and I was genuinely ashamed of myself).
I believe Rev. Dr. Harding had something on his blog once, a while ago, about reaching out to the “lost and lonely” (his words), and that they could be a bit difficult to approach. It’s so. Some more than others.
Again, I can’t speak for MerseyMike and don’t particularly want to. But as I type, I see an admonishment to remember Mt 5:43-45, about loving enemies. It may be worth considering, as Been There seems to suggest, that there may be more than one reason to do that. Believe it or not, I do understand why what is happening in your church would make you angry. Still, an outsider might also get angry for reasons other than simply wanting to bait the Christians or count coup … most of the juveniles who do that kind of thing are actually pretty detached from it all. Angry people often expect others to be angry also; you may surprise them if you are not. And you may have noticed that lots of people on reappraiser blogs (and remember, I’m not a reappraiser, I’m not even on that continuum) are really angry. More than you are, even.
Just a thought, and worth every penny you paid for it.
regards,
JPB

[33] Posted by Just Passing By on 03-21-2007 at 08:25 PM • top

Well said, JPB!
What does this group have to say to someone who USED to be a committed Christian/ Anglican and lost his or her faith? You folks probably don’t know what to do with someone like that!
After years of philandering clergy, lying bishops and Jesus spouting folks who are just plain mean and nasty, I came to the conclusion that Jesus Christ really does not make much of a difference in peoples’ lives, regardless of what they profess. I have noticed that the most Orthodox among them are usually attitudes just waiting to happen.
Thanks for reading.

[34] Posted by Virg on 03-22-2007 at 06:23 AM • top

Been There ...no, wrong way round. I USED to be ‘one of you’, round about 20 years ago or so, and have no intention of returning.

But I still take an active interest in church issues and as a gay man, clearly view the church as the primary locus of homophobia.

However, the possibility of a return to any conservative religion is nil. I am definitely ‘engaged’ in the debate, and would certainly not rule out a return to church IF TEC had a global outlet. I think I’m probably in something of a post-Christian position these days, though, so perhaps that’s less likely than it once was.

Still, I try to be polite and point out that not everyone agrees with the dominant view of the world expressed here….I do think that homophobia requires challenge wherever one finds it.

[35] Posted by Merseymike on 03-22-2007 at 12:53 PM • top

Although more than a majority of dioceses had voted to consent to Fr. Mark’s election, there were canonical deficiencies in the written responses sent to us,” McCormick wrote. “Several dioceses, both on and off American soil, thought that electronic permission was sufficient as had been their past accepted practice. The canons which apply are III.11.4(b), pp. 101-102 in the newly published 2006 Constitutions and Canons that require the prescribed testimonial to the consent be signed by a majority of each standing committee.” EX0-103 “I spoke to Father McCormick today, informing him that consent to the election of the Rev. Mark Lawrence has not been achieved,” wrote Jefferts Schori in an email from Camp Allen in Texas. 642-145
A formal letter to the diocese, she said, will go out March 16. Canonically adequate ballots were received by South Carolina from 50 diocesan standing committees. Several other standing committees were reported to have consented, but no signatures were attached to their ballots, 1z0-052 or the ballot itself was missing from South Carolina’s records, Jefferts Schori reported. Any committee that did not respond is considered to have voted no.

[36] Posted by brishen on 01-19-2010 at 12:10 AM • top

Self-denial is a discipline that God can use for strengthening your life with him. If you haven’t already embraced some Lenten discipline ask him to guide you in this. What normal or legitimate practice might you refrain from during this season? What divine-human cooperation might He lead you to embrace that his grace might prevail more fully? Many disciples have found that self-denial can be a delightful and godly refrain.

John(ccna)

[37] Posted by jhon.lincon on 03-30-2010 at 06:57 AM • top

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