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Duplicity and same sex blessings: The difference between Pastoral Care and Public Rites

Tuesday, September 25, 2007 • 5:55 am

It is somewhat embarrassing even for those of us who oppose these things to see Anglican bishops prevaricating like adolescent boys caught throwing a party while dad and mom are out of town. I would hope that they too are somewhat shamed this morning and that those bishops with a sense of honor and integrity who favor and allow same sex blessings will be willing to stand firm, to proclaim with true clarity the revelation they believe they have received from the Holy Spirit.


Just want to give you a brief head’s up for this morning. It is my expectation that the bishops’ drafting group, having worked last night and, perhaps, a little this morning as well, now have two drafts prepared for discussion and debate. One is a draft pastoral statement to the people of the Church. The second is a draft response to the requests of the DES Communique.

The bishops’ at last night’s press conference bent over backwards to get their talking points out: the House of Bishop’s response will be “clear” and “unambiguous”

And yet as we have seen, an Episcopalian bishops’ understanding of clarity and forthrightness is not wholly consistent with that of an ordinary person. An Episcopalian bishop, for example, can “permit” countless “acts of pastoral care” in his/her diocese wherein an officially licensed Episcopalian priest, in a “public” ceremony, blesses union of a gay and/or lesbian couple and still claim that he/she has not “authorized public rites for same sex blessings.”

The distinction such a bishop seeks to draw (or the obfuscation behind which such a bishop seeks to hide) is between a “rite” or liturgy authorized for use by the diocesan office and an actual ceremony, public or not, using a liturgy that does not enjoy the bishop’s “official” sanction.

Countless same sex blessings occur in dioceses throughout the country and while the various bishops know of and permit these blessings to take place they can still duplicitously claim that they have not “authorized rites” because they have not authorized a specific liturgy of blessing.

In doing so, the bishops appeal to C051" title="Resolution C051 ">Resolution C051 from the 74th General Convention which says that same sex blessings occur “within the common life” of the Episcopal Church, but does not include any authorization of “public rites” or liturgies.

Meeting in Tanzania, the Primates of the Communion and the Archbishop of Canterbury noting the ambiguity of TEC’s position asked that the Episcopal Church clarify its stance with regard to same-sex blessings.

21. However, secondly, we believe that there remains a lack of clarity about the stance of The Episcopal Church, especially its position on the authorisation of Rites of Blessing for persons living in same-sex unions. There appears to us to be an inconsistency between the position of General Convention and local pastoral provision. We recognise that the General Convention made no explicit resolution about such Rites and in fact declined to pursue resolutions which, if passed, could have led to the development and authorisation of them. However, we understand that local pastoral provision is made in some places for such blessings. It is the ambiguous stance of The Episcopal Church which causes concern among us.

22. The standard of teaching stated in Resolution 1.10 of the Lambeth Conference 1998 asserted that the Conference “cannot advise the legitimising or blessing of same sex unions”. The primates stated in their pastoral letter of May 2003,

...

While they [the Primates] appreciate the actions of the 75th General Convention which offer some affirmation of the Windsor Report and its recommendations, they deeply regret a lack of clarity about certain of those responses.

In particular, the Primates request, through the Presiding Bishop, that the House of Bishops of The Episcopal Church

1. make an unequivocal common covenant that the bishops will not authorise any Rite of Blessing for same-sex unions in their dioceses or through General Convention (cf TWR, §143, 144); and

2. confirm that the passing of Resolution B033 of the 75th General Convention means that a candidate for episcopal orders living in a same-sex union shall not receive the necessary consent (cf TWR, §134);
unless some new consensus on these matters emerges across the Communion (cf TWR, §134).

The duplicity evidenced by Bishop Bruno in last night’s press conference (which is not at all unique to Bishop Bruno but simply reflective of the institutional deception that has arisen since 2003) is precisely the sort of duplicity that the Dar Es Salaam Communique seeks to disallow. The Primates want same sex blessings to end.

If what we have seen so far is any indication, the House of Bishops is making every possible effort, making every acrobatic twist, not to be clear, not to be forthright and not to give an honest answer.

It is somewhat embarrassing even for those of us who oppose these things to see Anglican bishops prevaricating like adolescent boys caught throwing a party while dad and mom are out of town. I would hope that they too are somewhat shamed this morning and that those bishops with a sense of honor and integrity who favor and allow same sex blessings will be willing to stand firm, to proclaim with true clarity the revelation they believe they have received from the Holy Spirit.

 


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Ah, the Naughton-Sisk Loophole! TEC can’t really think that anybody will be fooled by distinguishing between “authorizing” ssbs and “permitting” them.

I am reminded of the Nixon impeachment hearings, in which one congressman accused the President of stretching the truth so far that if an elephant entered the room, the President would say “That’s not an elephant; that’s a mouse with a glandular condition”.

In effect, TEC is saying “Our blessing of same sex unions is not a rite; it’s pastoral care with a glandular condition”.

[1] Posted by Publius on 09-25-2007 at 06:34 AM • top

Careful now Publius or you might make 815’s “Enemies List”.

RSB

[2] Posted by R S Bunker on 09-25-2007 at 06:40 AM • top

Careful now Publius or you might make 815’s “Enemies List”.

RSB

Rest assured, RSB, as posters here, we are all already on 815’s “Enemies List.”  I have it on pretty good authority that I am not well liked in a least one diocese as well (now working on a new one- judging by the initial looks from a couple clergy here, I think I will be as popular as Frodo in Mordor).

TJ

[3] Posted by tjmcmahon on 09-25-2007 at 06:49 AM • top

Where are my glasses, I can’t read Matt+‘s article without my glasses on.
——
Seriously, I think you hit on something with the ‘adolescent boys’ comments, we have bishops who seemed to never grow up and leave the sixties, “Peter Pan bishops” who never spent time being refined by fire, instead run from any source of heat. Thus even one of the most bull dog bishops could not stand up to a secular reporter. While they seem to be willing to do anything to push their agenda, the panic and deer-in-headlights response to questions is just odd. They can only take a stand for something when they hold the cards?

[4] Posted by Hosea6:6 on 09-25-2007 at 06:53 AM • top

Two statements?  Why can’t they just issue one?  Seems like a perfect opportunity to talk out of both sides of their mouths when they craft 2 different statements for 2 different audiences.  No fudge possibilities there, nosiree.

[5] Posted by Connie Sandlin on 09-25-2007 at 07:14 AM • top

Matt, this is one of the few times I’d join you—and I suspect a good many liberals would join you, too—in asking for absolute honesty and clarity from those bishops who have been shamefully hiding behind the pastoral care smokescreen.  If they’ve encouraged (or allowed) their clergy to offer meaningful and substantial pastoral care for GLBT people—and if they are not opposed public rites of same sex blessing in the name of pastoral care ... just say so and be proud of it and let the chips fall where they may. 

If, on the other hand, they are opposed to same sex blessings as a form of pastoral care, say that and forbid diocesan clergy from performing such rites.

The hiding, waffling, prevaricating, misleading, both-sides-of-the-mouth bishopspeak shames us all.

[6] Posted by Almost Live Priest on 09-25-2007 at 07:14 AM • top

I remember someone who once said:  “Let your ‘yes’ be ‘yes’ and your ‘no’ be ‘no.’”  Jesus railed against the Pharisees, not because they were bad people, but because they twisted the law to make themselves look good.  What we have here with TECUSA’s bishops is a bunch of pharisees who twist their actions to seem to comply with the teaching of the Anglican Communion, but are really not.

Note yesterday’s discussion of DEPO - no mention of justice or moral obligation to those hurting persons and congregations in their dioceses.  They weren’t going to change DEPO because it was “good enough.” 

With God, there is no “good enough.”  God does not want part of us or some of us or “enough” of us.  God want’s all of us.  We are to surrender our entire selves just as the Son surrendered himself to become human.

YBIC,
Phil Snyder

[7] Posted by Philip Snyder on 09-25-2007 at 07:20 AM • top

And let us not forget that +Bruno is just the Duplicious Bishop of the Moment.  He’s not the only one using this double sided strategy.  Send the dogs out to flush the other rabbits from the heather.  Are SSUs going on in YOUR diocese?

[8] Posted by Cindy T. in TX on 09-25-2007 at 07:39 AM • top

Well, I have personal knowledge of the fact that these same sex blessings occur in the Diocese of Atlanta, and one has occurred at my former church.  If I know about them, one would think that the TEC Bishop knows as well.  You know, I remember reading on one of these blogs where Bishop Parsley issued a pastoral directive or godly admonition or whatever you call it ordering a priest not to teach a sunday school class.  Every TEC Bishop could simply issue the same order to every Priest and then impose discipline if they disobey, but of course they will not, and lie instead.  Why anyone would accept pastoral and spiritual leadership from a group of men and women who will simply not tell the truth is beyond me.

[9] Posted by William#2 on 09-25-2007 at 07:46 AM • top

Agreed, Matt+: even some on the Left have to be looking at Bruno’s disgraceful performance yesterday, not to mention the through-the-looking-glass open session discussion, and wondering what they’ve turned this church into.  ECUSA is a fraud from top to bottom: a “we don’t believe anything” church, a political lobby that says after the fact, “shouldn’t we throw some Scripture in there?” and a group whose highest leaders meet periodically to think of more creative ways to lie to their neighbors.  And they tell us this is of the Holy Spirit?

[10] Posted by Phil on 09-25-2007 at 07:46 AM • top

Wiiiam #2

If you are talking about All Saints I know that Jeffery Hoare and +J Neil have had “talks” about the blessings All Saints has performed.

RSB

[11] Posted by R S Bunker on 09-25-2007 at 07:49 AM • top

Matt+ - PLEEEEASE share this info with the NYT reporter.  It would be great for that reporter to ask again and even have the picture of +Bruno at one of the “blessed” events.  The reporter might also be interested in the list of ssbs listed on the main page.  Thanks for all your work.

[12] Posted by usma87 on 09-25-2007 at 07:57 AM • top

Re: Atlanta: Did you notice Alexander turn his head down and to the side when Bruno was dispensing his whopper? “Whew! Close! I dodged that bullet.”

[13] Posted by Gator on 09-25-2007 at 08:02 AM • top

From a 2005 resolution (sponsored by Louie Crew and approved by convention) in Newark responding to the Windsor Report:

“RESOLVED, That in response to the pastoral needs of Episcopalians in this Diocese, we support the decision of the Bishop of the Diocese of Newark to exercise his authority and responsibility to approve liturgies including, but not limited to, the blessing of same-sex relationships”

[14] Posted by DaveG on 09-25-2007 at 08:03 AM • top

The words that keep coming to my mind these days are a line from the blogger, Bob Goodwin, when he wrote, “…they have broken the covenant between truth and language”.  When words can mean whatever someone wants them to mean, then words mean nothing, and the truth cannot be with them.  Repentance is just another word for “becoming honest” or “returning to the truth”.  If I was to try and sum up, in my own words, all of the warnings that we as Christians are given, it would be, “that we are to shun the lie”.  For in the end, the lie is the worm in the apple and will destroy whatever it infests from the inside out.

[15] Posted by wildiris on 09-25-2007 at 08:09 AM • top

she’s seen it I believe. She is a fantastic reporter

[17] Posted by Matt Kennedy on 09-25-2007 at 08:31 AM • top

I’m totally offended. Kaeton thinks I’m a charismatic?? What do I have to do to persuade her…I’m a CALVINIST. I do not hold my hands up when I pray. I do not clap. I do not get “slain in the spirit”. My new gen y youth minister has had to be restrained from playing certain repetitive choruses over and over again…there is not a charismatic bone in my body.

Not that there is anything wrong with it smile

[18] Posted by Matt Kennedy on 09-25-2007 at 08:42 AM • top

Thank you for that, Allan.  More fruits of the Hoy Spirit from Elizabeth Kaeton, developed, no doubt, in her down time when she isn’t plotting to have other people’s children seized and re-educated by the State.

[19] Posted by Phil on 09-25-2007 at 08:42 AM • top

Matt+, that’s just another one of their throwaway lines, along with “con-evo” and “fundagelical” (you know, like Jack Iker).

Understand, there is something wrong with putting your hands in the air to worship, but there’s nothing wrong with denying the Resurrection, thinking Jesus was just a neat liberal, having lesbian “priests,” or “marrying” two or three or four SS people, as long as you use a lot of incense in church.  Then, you’re a radical, passionate Anglo-“Catholic.”  Got it?

[20] Posted by Phil on 09-25-2007 at 08:47 AM • top

Well struck Matt, well struck.

RSB

[21] Posted by R S Bunker on 09-25-2007 at 08:52 AM • top

The good news from Keaton is that she admits that her Bishop can authorize blessings not in the liturgy. If he must authorize, he can also refuse to authorize. Bishops can refuse to authorize blessings of cats and play toys if they choose. Therefore, Bishops can refuse to authorize SSB in their diocese if they choose. 

Ipso facto te deum therefor and thoushalt, Bishops can comply with the requirement of DES not to authorize SSB if they choose, without violating the polity of TEC. They choose not to comply, as we will see officially in a little while.

[22] Posted by BillS on 09-25-2007 at 08:54 AM • top

I’m totally offended. Kaeton thinks I’m a charismatic?? What do I have to do to persuade her…I’m a CALVINIST.

LOL!  Was wondering what your reaction to that would be Matt+—got quite the chuckle out of Liz’s mistake.

[23] Posted by The_Elves on 09-25-2007 at 08:54 AM • top

Hold on here a few posts below and she whining about “leadership?” How the HoB needs to lead. That’s exactly where my above post, ALP & Matt+ agree!

What perplexed me is how quickly +Bruno caved to a reporter’s question and seemed to go back on his own convictions. +Chane’s reported performance after B033 was past may not be to my liking but it at least had elements of leadership and folks knew where he stood. Then that was in a “safe environment,” obviously NYT reporters are not safe, so +Bruno squirmed on the question - that’s the “Duplicity.”  Oh well, I guess this is a fine example of her <i>duplicity<>.

[24] Posted by Hosea6:6 on 09-25-2007 at 08:58 AM • top

Matt,
Actually in our Diocese the Bishop has been quite clear about his permissions for ssb’s.  He also insists that ss couples receive the same “pre-blessing” (?!) counseling as others receive before marriage.  (I have no way to validate this.) When he visits us, the only Network parish in the entirety of the state, he has a simple strategy: he apologizes if his reading of the Gospel, thus permitting his decisions around ssb’s and ordinations, offends us; and, offers that while we “agree about our spirituality we disagree about our humanity.”  (We don’t agree much on spirituality either, but it’s a nice line.) Of course most of us don’t buy it, but at least he is close to being honest.  (Of course our Diocese, has not officially approved rites for ssb’s, leaving them the good Episcopal wiggle room of plausible deniability.)

[25] Posted by dl on 09-25-2007 at 09:10 AM • top

Matt, I’m relieved to hear you are not a charismatic.  I never thought you were, but thanks for the reassurance.  Quite possibly Ms Kaeton would not know the difference between a classical Calvinist and a charismatic. And thanks for your hard work in what must be a grueling week.  God bless.

[26] Posted by Laurence K Wells on 09-25-2007 at 09:18 AM • top

An announcement from the Diocese of Newark’s GLBT ministry (Oasis) just this past May:

Bishop Beckwith has given The Oasis permission to create a list of clergy willing to perform civil unions as a resource for same sex couples who wish for their ceremonies to be performed by clergy.  As civil agents of the state, clergy are legally permitted to perform civil unions and canonically there is nothing to prevent clergy from performing them and blessing the union.

Hard copies of this letter were sent to all diocesan clergy last month, but as response to the letter has been spotty we have been asked to re-send the letter via email.

The Bishop has a standard of expectations for any clergy performing civil union partnerships.

1.  Civil Union ceremonies may be performed in church.

2.  A record of the service may be recorded in the parish register.

3.  It is the choice of the clergyperson, as in marriage, whether or not they will perform civil unions, and

4.  The same requirements and expectations exist for civil unions – counseling, participation in the life of the church community and congregation, etc. – that the clergyperson and church require for marriage.  If it is a second relationship, permission needs to be given by the bishop (as in a second marriage request).

5.  Guidelines for the service may be obtained from the Civil Union Task Force.   

As you probably know, the Bishop has established a Civil Union Task Force to help respond to this new legal opportunity, chaired by Ms. Barbara Conroy and the Rev. Phil Wilson.  In the meantime, if you are looking for services of blessing The Oasis has on file several approved ceremonies of blessing which are available by e-mail to anyone in the diocese who requests them.

If you have not already done so please let The Oasis know if you would like to be included on the list of clergy willing to perform civil unions.  You can send a note of your willingness to The Oasis by e-mail to .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address) or to The Oasis, 31 Mulberry Street, Newark, NJ 07102.

Sincerely,

THE OASIS

John Simonelli, Commission Chair

One thing I will say for +Mark Beckwith—I think he’ll be much more honest about this than +Bruno.

[27] Posted by In Newark on 09-25-2007 at 09:20 AM • top

It’s all sooooooo nuanced, d00d!  Its like a lava lamp, dig it?  All that mixture of red and clear gels just wrapping around and interacting and living in harmony with that gentle warmth.  Its like ying and yang, you know?  Oh, wait a minute, I better throw a scripture in here (OOps?  did i just say that aloud… whoaaaaaa!).  Let’s see.  Uh, Genesis 1:35.  ya, dig that one! 

—————————————

Sorry, got a little a carried away there.  But all this has, IMHO, been a clear display that, barring a few bishops in the TEC, they—- collectively—- have sided with the father of lies.

Viewed charitably, Satan did not technically lie to Eve.  Eve added the command, “and you must not touch it, or you will die.”  To which he responded, “You will not surely die..”  But God never told Adam and Eve “don’t touch it”; rather, “not to eat it”.  So Satan could technically argue he didn’t lie to what Eve said, for merely touching the fruit was not against prohibition.

I think its way past time to call what a large part of Anglican Fudge actually is: Lying.  My vote is that this whole pretense of “Worthy opponents” be dropped. 

Was it Mother Theresa that said “[speaking of encountering satan] spit in his face!” ???

I pray that when the HOB releases their sham document, their duplicity and obfuscation (both lies) be so abundantly clear that even the secular world will laugh with derision.

[28] Posted by why1914 on 09-25-2007 at 09:22 AM • top

Imagine how wonderful it will be when Anglicans who choose to can once again worship God in the traditional Anglican way, without fuzzy-wuzzy Care Bear music, our Lord as someone’s “Mother,” large heaping sacksful of undeserved ‘guilt’ dumped upon us by hypocrites, lawsuits, Millenium Development Goals, secret political agendas and Episcobabble Newspeak.

I can hardly wait. Come, Holy Spirit, come.

[29] Posted by rkreed on 09-25-2007 at 09:28 AM • top

Now, Brad, you must stop singing, “Liar, liar, pants on fire! Your nose is longer than a telephone wire.”

Brad’s courtroom antics are legendary.  The opposing counsel laughed so hard he forgot to object for badgering the witness. grin

[30] Posted by Piedmont on 09-25-2007 at 09:33 AM • top

Hands in the air.  Well, just for the record, before we had hymnals and prayer books to hold people typically prayed with hands in the air.  Yes, the printing press radically changed the way we worship.  Before everyone had sheet music, choirs would gather around the one book they had, put their hands in the air and praise God.  Which brings us to praise screens.  Yep, praise screens are more traditional than hymnals!  Ducking and running…

[31] Posted by Ed McNeill on 09-25-2007 at 09:35 AM • top

What a charming post. To be fair, she called Brad charismatic.
“For example, ‘The Blessing of the Animals’ which we do out on the Great Lawn”
I’ll refrain from making the obvious crack about “blessing animals”.
That’s a neat trick she has. If someone says, “pardon me, I think you’re mistaken…”, don’t try to respond to their points, just go into hysterics calling them ‘Spiritually Immature’ and project your own sophomoric, spoiled attitudes on to them.

[32] Posted by SpongJohn SquarePantheist on 09-25-2007 at 10:26 AM • top

I don’t want to be unChristian here, but I am being serious because I don’t know her personally. But is there something going on with E. Keaton? I mean, is she really clergy? She seems to exhibit some, well, odd emotional behaviors. I am struggling here, but I have serious concerns…

Please let me know….I am steering clear of her, but wow….

[33] Posted by Conoscenzo on 09-25-2007 at 11:39 AM • top

... is she really clergy?

Conoscenzo:  Just because she calls herself an orthodox priest doesn’t make it so!

[34] Posted by Piedmont on 09-25-2007 at 11:49 AM • top

This brings back memories of head banging hair graying conversations I used to have with my daughter.

Me: Do you have any homework? 
Daughter:  I have no homework.
Me: Are you sure ( since this was very unusual)
Daughter: Yes I am sure.  (I asked again several times to clarify and several times she assured me that she had no homework.)
Me: ( one last time) Are you sure you do not have any work you have to do for class.
Daughter:  All I have is an assignment to turn in tommorow.
Me: That’s HOMEWORK.
Daughter: It is not homework because my teacher did not give it as homework.  It is an assignment we started in class.  So it is not homework.
Me: ( Head banging and counting of new gray hair commences)

[35] Posted by Paula Loughlin on 09-25-2007 at 12:08 PM • top

Conoscenzo—Rev. Kaeton is, really and truly, the rector of St. Paul’s in Chatham, NJ and the President of the Standing Committee of the Diocese of Newark.

[36] Posted by In Newark on 09-25-2007 at 01:03 PM • top

I admit it…..last Sunday I had BOTH hands in the air while our BAND was playing a particularly rousing CONTEMPORARY rendition of Holy, Holy, Holy. Matter of fact, when I sneaked a peak around the congregation I saw two or three others surreptitiously holding their hands ABOVE their waists during the same song. I hope you all don’t revoke my orthodox credentials since I’ve already paid my annual dues!!

[37] Posted by yankeeintexas on 09-25-2007 at 01:06 PM • top

Apparently she puts the blessing of her relationship with her partner on par with “The Sprinkling of the Shitzus,” or the “Christening of the Chryslers.”  They, according to her, are authorized by the same rubric in the BCP.

I actually like having my animals blessed each year on the Feast of St. Francis, but I don’t consider it a formal sacrament, nor do I use that rubric as subterfuge against the intention of the Communion. 

A lie is still a lie, even if you put lipstick on it and dress it in Prada.

[38] Posted by Cindy T. in TX on 09-25-2007 at 01:18 PM • top

Can the Kaeton link be its own thread? Loved her claims to graciousness and spiritual maturity and allowing opposing views as she sarcastically belittles those with views opposed to her own.
Her efforts to portray those at Stand Firm as children and claim adulthood for herself are quite bizarre in the context of her childish rant.
The attitude she displays toward Africa is quite surprising given the whole MDG thing. I guess she can only see Africa as a supplicant and cannot imagine African Anglicans may be more spiritually mature than herself.
(Not to dismiss the importance of the content explaining the way they justify the same sex blessings as valuable documentation.)

[39] Posted by Deja Vu on 09-25-2007 at 01:54 PM • top

Thanks for the info on EK…I can see why TEC is in the state its in if this person could get through seminary and the discernment process. I went through the discernment process in my diocese and the emotional instability she displays would not have passed muster. At this point I guess I am more shocked that I can still be shocked…but wow…we all have some praying to do if she is leading a flock….
Very sad…

[40] Posted by Conoscenzo on 09-25-2007 at 02:31 PM • top

And now a word from the Lesbian priests:
Susan Russell: “OK ... this is my blog and I can say what I want. Right? The B033 line sucked. B033 ITSELF sucks!”
and now from “Mother” Kaeton, speaking of her reasserting brethren:
“They love nothing more than separating flyshit from pepper.”

It’s not enough that they’re heretics.  They are coarse and trashy as well.

[41] Posted by HeartAfire on 09-25-2007 at 06:36 PM • top

Thus undoing all the hard work of dutiful flies such as Kaeton, Woodward and Spong, who’ve developed a talent for creating very realistic ‘fake pepper’.

[42] Posted by SpongJohn SquarePantheist on 09-25-2007 at 07:08 PM • top

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