The canons of the Episcopal Church say that all "baptized Christians" are invited to communion. But more and more Episcopal churches aren't following those rules, says the Rev. Canon Mary June Nestler, spokeswoman for the Episcopal Diocese of Utah. "Instead, they're extending the invitation of communion to any person who feels led to receive it."
That said, the Episcopal Church does recommend denying communion in some cases — described in the church's Prayer Book as people who are "living a notoriously evil life" or "are a scandal to the other members of the congregation."
In her 28 years of ordination, she says, she has never had to deny communion and has only witnessed two denials — a person involved in a serious financial misconduct of parish funds and the case of a triangle of adulterers. Even then, says the Rev. Nestler, the priest did not refuse communion on the spot. Instead, as advised in the Prayer Book, the priest spoke privately to them, advising them not to come to the communion table until they had given "clear proof of repentance and amendment of life."
But faced with an uncertain situation, says the Rev. Nestler, "I would say it's best to err on the side of generosity, because Christ's table is a generous table. Second-guessing at the communion rail is always a difficult call."
Open or closed
Other churches vary in their guidelines and their vigilance. The LDS Church, according to spokesman Robert Howell, extends the sacrament of communion to anyone who wishes to partake.
The bulletin at Hilltop United Methodist Church in Sandy notes that "we believe the communion table should be open to everyone. Come and share." Other churches practice "closed" communion, "guarding the table from those who might take it lightly," explains Salt Lake Theological Seminary President Jeffrey Silliman.
I'd be interested to hear how things are handled in your diocese and/or parish. Here in Mississippi, the official policy is closed communion, but in several key parishes - mainly, and not surprisingly, ones in urban areas - practice open communion by inviting to the table "all those who follow Christ."
While in practice I fall squarely into the closed-communion camp, my one concession to the idea of open communion is that to some seekers, who have perhaps been exposed only to clumsy or off-base evangelizing year after year (we are talking about the Episcopal Church, after all), the act of taking communion constitutes by far the most powerful evangelism they are likely to experience any time soon. I have heard more than one person articulate this, saying in effect that they've been to some church services, sat through a few sermons, read some books, listened to their friends witness to them, and nothing clicks; but once or twice they took communion, and that experience alone affected them so much that it keeps bringing them back, keeps them "on the path." Now obviously, I'm not advocating giving communion to the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, or anyone else looking to mock the faith or its sacraments or make what is essentially a political statement, or even the casual seeker; rather, I'm asking: If we become convinced that communion is what will finally and fully bring the sincere seeker to Christ, and without it we're convinced they'll drift away, what do we do?













In Minnesota officially it is closed communion but in the larger parishes and the more liberal ones they practice open communion. I invite all who are baptized to join us at the table, and disagree with the increasingly open communion practices.