I think the problem with liberal Christians who show too much acceptance is that one of the central tenets of being a liberal Christian is accepting.

Let's face it. Liberal Christians are in many cases willing to accept just about any kind of behavior and justify that acceptance with stuff like 'Jesus preached forgiveness and acceptance'.

I'm sorry to say it, but trying to find an 'identity' now is like coming to church when it's almost over. You guys have gone so far down the path of acceptance that now that you're finding that it's too slippery a slope, you've already lost all your traction.